Even when you're crazy about someone,
it can often be hard to know if he or she is "right" for you.
How do you know you won't feel differently in a year? Ten years? A lifetime?
These are 15 signs that you're dating a soul mate.
You don't have to check off all of these points to be sure about someone,
but if you can say yes to several, you've found someone very special...:)
1. You tell him things you don't tell anyone else.
~ The desire to tell him intimate details about your life means you trust him -
a major component of successful long-term love.
2. You let him see you in moments of weakness.
~ It's easy to be happy with someone when you're feeling good about life.
But what about when you're not doing so well? :)
3. You respect him.
~ You don't want to change the essence of who he is.
There may be stuff that irritates you in everyday life - he insists on wearing his favorites, holey T-shirt, he eats sugar cereal for dinner, he still watches Saturday morning cartoons - but you like him, plain and simple.
4. You want him to meet your parents.
~ You feel proud of him and you want to show him off -
as opposed to feeling like you have to make excuses for him.
5. You can imagine a future together.
~ You periodically let your mind wander to picture a life together...Is it amazing? :)
6. You're not afraid to disagree with him.
~ You know that even if you fight, he'll listen to you and won't brush you off.
He takes you seriously, even when he thinks you're wrong.
7. You want to work out your major differences.
~ If you do have crucial differences that will impact your future together - different opinions about religion, money or something else - you want to work them out with him, and you believe you can come to a conclusion that will satisfy both of you.
8. You laugh together.
~ Laughter is one of life's simplest pleasures - you should definitely be able to crack each other up.
9. You're incredibly, utterly, surprisingly attracted to him.
~ Physical chemistry is an undeniably important ingredient in a healthy relationship.
Even more reason to think he's the one.
10. It's OK to be quiet around him.
~ You don't feel like you have to fill the space between you with chatter or other interaction.
Instead, you feel an easy comfort.
11. You feel like yourself around him.
~ You don't feel like you have to edit your thoughts; you're not self-conscious or anxious.
12. You need him the right amount.
~ You long for him - but not too much. Some neediness is good but too much breeds discontent.
13. You don't feel too jealous.
~ You're comfortable with him going out with his friends - even female friends.
You let each other have your own lives and hobbies.
14. You feel like he makes you a better person.
~ He makes you feel smart, funny, attractive, creative - like the best version of yourself.
You feel like he brings out and complements the best parts of you.
15. He just gets you.
~ Sometimes it's that easy. You feel like he understands some essential part of you that you can't explain or articulate.
It's a warm, comfortable feeling - and one you should have with the person you marry. :)
I guess all the 15 things is happening to me...
No.12 maybe ter'over' sikit...ngeh3..:)
Praying that we're so meant to be...together...forever...:)
Love you, sayang! :)
Source : www.yourtango.com
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