:: Pengorbanan ::

Hi semua..sy ngah install iTunes 10.5 nih...huhu.

Biaselah...kalau donlod iTunes mmgla berjanggut nk tnggu...66MB....T_T

Tp terpakse juge...sbb spe suh upgrade to iOS 5 kn? uweks! :p

So, sementara mengisi masa lapang ni, sy terfikir satu topik dalam hubungan which is "PENGORBANAN".

Kalau nak cerita tentang pengorbanan ni mmg satu hari satu mlm pn tak abis...

Tp you all sedar tak...and terfikir tak sama ada you all sudah berkorban / banyak berkorban / tak pernah berkorban utk kekasih? Dan you all sedar tak sama ada pengorbanan you all tu dihargai / dibalas / dibalas tuba? huhu...:) Mcm2 kn...? 

Pd sy, pengorbanan ni ada byk bentuknya. Tak kiralah dari segi apa pn...tp you all sedar tak yg when we love somebody so much, pengorbanan tu tak rasa membebankan lgsg..tak rasa penat..tak rasa susah..tak rasa sakit... Mungkin tulah salah satu 'miracle' dalam cinta. Tp awas dalam berkorban...jgn sampai kita pula yg terkorban dek kerana nk berkorban sgt utk org yg tersyg...hehe :)

For me, selagi apa yg sy boleh bantu, dgn apa yg sy ada, sy akan tlg insan yg sy syg tu...tak kiralah dari segi apa pn...tp remember ya kwn2, ada lelaki yg suka sgt kta berkorban utk dia, smpai dia boleh gunakan kta pulak...and that's so not LOVE...huhu. And to guys, bila gf you dah sanggup buat apa saja utk you, appreciate her! And kalau ada chance, berkorbanlah juge utk dia...sama2 nak hidup bahagia smpai akhir hayat kn? Remember, LOVE won't be easy and strong if one side je yg main peranan! Bukan susah nk appreciate a woman...if you appreciate her doings, her feelings, her words, her cooks...hihi, that's more than enough, I guess...:)

Sy pulak jenis yg susah nk hrp material things dr my boyfie (ini bkn ayat buat2 atau pretend ye) ..hehe. Sy jenis yg sukakan attention, care and love. Pd sy, itu pn da lebih dr cukup...bila rasa disayangi, tak payahlah  nak bagi itu ini, semua tu material yg tak kan tahan smpai bila2 pn... Tp if dia bg apa2, of course, I appreciate sgt2..:)

Kepada women out there yg sygkan your partner sgt2, I just want to say : Keep showing your love to your loved ones and don't ever stops! Be sincere in whatever you say & do. Love them for who they are. Sacrifice is needed in a r.ship...but don't overdo it! Making surprises is one of the best way to impress guys...they love surprises! *wink* ;) See if your partner is willing to do the same to you...jgn mkn hati sorg2... Be sure that you're comfortable (I mean, sooo comfortable) with the r.ship. If there's something that you don't like or uncomfortable with, discuss it with them. LOVE is not easy as it looks! :)

Kepada men out there yg ada gf yg sanggup sacrifice utk you, I just want to say : BE THANKFUL! BE WISE! Please..please..please...appreciate apa juga yg dia buat utk you. Be sincere in expressing your feelings and thoughts. Truth hurts. But it hurts more if you are not sincere in your r.ship. Jgn ambil kesempatan if your loved ones sanggup buat apa saja utk you. Be a smart guy with attitude! I repeat, 'ATTITUDE'. No one is perfect, and so does a r.ship. Be gentle, and show her that you'd give your very best in the r.ship...nothing can make her more happier...:)

~ Whatever I wrote is a reminder for me too. I'm not a love doctor. But I love to write what I think and what I feel...mcm habit pulak kn? Hihi..:) ~

For me, it's simple : "Buat yg terbaik dan yg termampu utk semua org yg kita sayang...kerana mereka ingin rasa gembira dan disayangi, seperti kita...Jangan harapkan balasan yg sama atau lebih, kerana kasih syg yg ikhlas akan dibalas olehNya...insyaAllah...."

Semoga semua berbahagia & happy2 selalu! :)

 ♥ mr+mrsNovember  ♥